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Oftentimes, guys leave relationships and say things like, “I love you.” They make their ex think they still have romantic feelings and that they’ll come back when they figure some things out. Unfortunately, dumpers have no intention of figuring anything out, let alone coming back. They’re satisfied with their decisions and their newfound freedom and … Read more
Letting go of a cheating spouse may seem easy to someone who wasn’t cheated on, but it’s anything but. Letting go requires a ton of determination, emotional strength, reflection, and reminders that moving on from the cheater is the best thing to do if you want to be healthy, happy, and in control of your … Read more
The worst thing you can do after a breakup is tell your ex you still love him. Telling him you have feelings for him won’t help him fall back in love with you and recommit to you. It will do the opposite (suffocate him and prevent him from opening his heart back up to you). … Read more
Although sleeping with your ex after a breakup can help you feel less abandoned and unworthy of your ex’s attention and affection, it can also give you tons of false hope, anxiety, and confusion. Post-breakup intimacy with an ex who left you can make you think that your ex still finds you attractive and that … Read more
When an ex sends you a message with the word “Hey” without any context or explanation, it can cause a range of emotions such as confusion, fear, or anxiety. The short message can give you tons of hope and make you think that your ex might be coming back around. While that may be true, … Read more
Getting over being cheated on and lied to is not an easy task. It demands emotional support, understanding, patience, time, and tons of effort and commitment to healing. The stronger your emotional attachment and the greater your relationship aspirations at the time of cheating were, the more challenging and prolonged the process of accepting betrayal … Read more
If your ex-girlfriend is dating someone new, she’s one of many dumpers who are eager to connect with someone new. She’s in a hurry to replace the past with someone she knows nothing about so that she can feel loved, prioritized, and supported. Dating can be an empowering experience. It can help your ex distract … Read more
It’s important to understand that when your ex asks if you are seeing someone, your ex is probably not asking this question to get back with you and fix the broken relationship. Although you probably want that to be the case, it’s more likely that your ex is simply curious to know if you still … Read more
Many people don’t seem to know how to help their friend through a breakup. They either don’t know how to help or don’t want to help because they feel overwhelmed by their friend’s crying, sadness, desperation, and obsession with the dumper. They don’t want to say the wrong thing and hurt their friend, so they … Read more
No contact is the hardest when you first start following it. It feels like you’re forcing yourself to do something you don’t want and decreasing your chances of being with your ex rather than making your ex want to be with you. Although it can feel scary to stay away from your ex and be … Read more