When Your Ex-girlfriend Tells You To Move On

When your ex girlfriend tells you to move on

When your ex-girlfriend tells you to move on, she sees or feels that you’re not accepting the breakup and that you may be thinking about how to impress her and reattract her. In a strange way, she wants to help you let go of hope and completely give up on getting back together. She knows … Read more

Dumper Blames Dumpee For Everything

Dumper blames dumpee

It’s common for the dumper to blame the dumpee after a breakup. The dumper feels pressured by the dumpee and relieved by his or her absence, so the dumper wants more freedom. If he or she gets it, the dumper stays away from the dumpee and enjoys his or her space and quiet. However, if … Read more

Radio Silence After The Breakup

Radio silence after breakup

After a breakup, it’s important to have a period of radio silence. Radio silence gives both parties time to process their emotions and helps them avoid hurting each other due to conflicting wants and needs. Typically, dumpers want to be alone and do their own things. They want to enjoy their freedom and emotionally distance … Read more

Multiple Breakups With The Same Person

Multiple breakups with the same person

Multiple breakups with the same person are a warning sign of a deep-rooted problem in a relationship. It’s proof that one person (or both people) are making the same mistakes over and over again and that they’re not able to break their negative patterns. Due to a lack of will to reflect and grow, they … Read more

Is Moving Away After A Breakup A Good Idea?

Moving away after a breakup is often a good idea. Physical distance can help you detox from a broken relationship and encourage you to focus on yourself without worrying about running into your ex. It can make you talk to new people, explore new places, and distract you, which can, in turn, make you less … Read more

How To Break Up With Someone You Just Started Dating?

How to break up with someone you just started dating

Breaking someone’s heart is never easy. It involves crushing a person’s feelings and expectations, which can leave you feeling guilty and ashamed. The relationship may be new, but it’s difficult to break things off because you don’t want to hurt your partner and see him or her respond emotionally to the breakup. You’d rather see … Read more

How Long Is The No Contact Rule?

How long is the no contact rule

There’s a lot of conflicting information on the internet about how long the no contact rule is supposed to be. Some no contact advocates claim it shouldn’t last longer than two weeks whereas others say it should be implemented for 30 days or longer. People suggest different things not because they have different experiences with … Read more

What Makes An Ex Come Back?

What makes an ex want to come back

Sometimes exes realize they made a terrible decision and come back. They run back to their ex (their backup plan) and try to obtain what they lack and need to feel fulfilled. They say they regret leaving and that they want to take the relationship seriously and prove their commitment. Because they’re unhappy, they’re willing … Read more

He Doesn’t Want A Relationship But Won’t Let Me Go

He doesn't want a relationship but won't let me go

When a guy doesn’t want a relationship but won’t let you go, he wants the best of both worlds. He wants you to keep giving him relationship benefits for free and letting him stay in your life without any commitment.  The guy feels comfortable in the situation he’s currently in because he doesn’t have to … Read more

What To Do If An Ex Asks For A Favor?

What to do if an ex asks for a favour

If your ex asked for a favor and you don’t know whether to help your ex or not, you need to understand that ex-partners’ job is to detach and regain their identities, not do each other favors and stay in each other’s lives. Favors, romance, and communication are meant for partners who love each other … Read more