4 thoughts on “Why Does My Ex Still Follow Me?”

  1. Hi Zan,

    Thanks for this article.

    I have a question regarding my ex along the same line. She broke up with me 7 months ago, and I took the breakup hard; it was messy. But she never unfollowed me or deleted my phone number.
    Since then, only a little conversation has taken place between us: mostly cold ‘Happy Birthday’ and ‘Thank you’, all on Whatsapp.
    I was never big on Instagram, but I had created one just for her, and only she and later, her best friend were following it. Since the breakup, I have NOT watched any of their stories or liked their posts, so technically I was a ghost on that app. But suddenly after this long they both unfollowed me together (same-time). My ex has not deleted/blocked my phone number on WhatsApp yet.
    I know it should not bother me, and to be honest I’m focusing on my life as much as I can. But I can’t help but wonder what might have happened after 7 months to actively look for my account and unfollow it when I have zero activity and was not bothering them. Any insight would be helpful.

    Thanks 🙂

    1. Hi Dave.

      This tends to happen to dumpees. Their ex unfollows them randomly after realizing there’s no point in staying friends and following their ex. Your ex probably talked to her friend about you and decided to unfollow you at the same time. I wouldn’t look into it too much because it doesn’t make a difference. Nothing happened other than them simultaneously agreeing it was time to unfollow you.

      Best regards,
      Zan

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