7 thoughts on “Ending A Long-distance Relationship With Someone You Love”

  1. it is so painful after a break up in this LDR, especially with this pandemic that we can’t travel to be with our partner, had been in LDR for 4 years and tried applying for visa but was denied and money too is the issue,, I know God has a plan , a better one that’s all

    1. Hi Morie.

      I know you’re in a lot of pain right now but look at it from this perspective. It’s better that you broke up now before you moved countries. Imagine how difficult things would have been if you moved in together and broke up afterward.

      Tell yourself that the pandemic wasn’t the issue, but rather that the two of you weren’t ready to handle the issues that you faced as a couple. It’s highly likely that you would have broken up in person too. Maybe not right away, but eventually, you’d encounter similar issues.

      Stay strong!
      Zan

  2. Hi Zan – can you write an article on surviving a breakup in the pandemic? With limited options due to lockdowns and very little activities to meet new people or even your friends – how can we navigate through the same?

    1. I agree. Breakup gurus rarely address this important detail in our current predicament.

      I also feel more angry about my ex doing what she did because she did it when I had no chance to find someone else. She took the coward’s way out by monkeybranching and ghosting. And she did this at a time like this.

  3. I don’t know ends of any relationship makes me emotional. Such a good point of view Zan
    Thank you and happy Sunday ❤️

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