It can be extremely difficult to determine whether an ex will come back after a breakup. There are just too many factors to consider, including the dumper’s ability to grow, way of processing negativity, and most importantly, random bad events. You can’t foresee if your ex will encounter difficulties that force him or her to […]
The Christmas holidays can be particularly challenging for people who have recently been broken up with. While everyone else is decorating their homes, preparing to spend time with their loved ones, and enjoying the festivities, dumpees tend to feel nostalgic about their exes. They often think that they can’t enjoy the holiday season without their
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It’s extremely important to be indifferent to an ex-girlfriend you want to be with. Indifference is essential because it depicts signs of emotional detachment and strength. It shows you’ve accepted the breakup and that you have no romantic expectations of your ex. A lack of romantic expectations allows your ex-girlfriend not to feel pressured into
How to let go of an ex fast? Is it even possible to move on from someone you love? These questions often pop into dumpees’ heads when they fear their ex has moved on while they’re still struggling to accept reality. Many dumpers simply feel tired of seeing their ex enjoying his or her life
Are you wondering why your ex unblocked you on social media? If you are and you’re having a hard time deciphering your ex’s social media behavior, you’re not alone. Many dumpees struggle to understand why their ex unblocked them after the breakup. They have high expectations of their ex, so they especially struggle to understand
If your ex asked you if you slept with someone else, it’s probably safe to say that your ex feels a bit insecure and wants to know if your luck has been better than his/hers when it comes to sex. Your ex is basically looking for reassurance and hopes to hear that he or she
Being on a break in a relationship is extremely dangerous. It’s dangerous whether your relationship is short or long-term, long-distance or no distance, and healthy or unhealthy. Every minute you spend not bonding and feeling loved, the risk of staying permanently disconnected from your partner increases. A relationship needs love and connection to thrive. It
Exes like to say all kinds of nice stuff. They especially like to say “I miss you” and “I love you.” They like these words because they don’t want you to feel abandoned and forgotten. A part of them is aware of the pain and inconvenience they’ve caused you. That part is called conscience. Deep
Have any of your exes come back when you stopped caring and no longer depended on them for recognition? Or have you seen others’ exes come back when they were already over them or okay without them? If you have and wonder why some exes come back when you stop caring, it’s because you stop
Dumpees who feel abandoned and anxious are often in the belief that they must do something to win their ex back. They think they must jump through a bunch of hoops to show they’re the right person for their detached and disinterested ex. What they don’t know is that their ideas stem from pain, insecurities,
If your ex (recently) left the relationship and isn’t responding to your texts, calls, or in-person communication, your ex probably isn’t testing you. Your ex is keeping you at a safe distance because doing so makes your ex feel free and relieved. It gives your ex enough space to self-prioritize and feel in control of
Oftentimes lost and anxious dumpees wonder when exes come back. They want to know if they should wait and how long they should wait for the person they love to reach the regretful stage of a breakup and come running back. The answer I give most dumpees is “don’t wait at all” because waiting puts