If your ex unblocked you but hasn’t reached out, it’s safe to say that your ex has processed the initial stages of a breakup. Your ex has discerned that he or she went too far with the blocking and changed his or her mind about you.
But don’t get me wrong. Your ex hasn’t changed his or her mind about getting back with you. That’s not what getting unblocked means.
All it means is that your ex doesn’t feel as smothered, angry, or annoyed as before and that your ex doesn’t want to be the person who blocks exes and holds resentments.
You’ve heard me right.
Your ex wants to be on good (or neutral) terms with people. including you, and needed to unblock you to clear his or her guilty conscience.
So whatever you do, don’t think that an ex who unblocks you wants you back and that you should message or call your ex right away. Doing so won’t help you get your ex back because your ex isn’t waiting for you to reach out so that the two of you can get back together.
If your ex wanted you back, your ex would have made the phone call himself or herself and would have apologized to you. Your ex would have done everything in his or her power to get your trust back.
This is true even if your ex felt guilty and was afraid getting rejected by you.
The reason your ex unblocked you, therefore, is very straightforward. Your ex unblocked you because you displayed confidence and self-esteem and proved that you have the strength to move forward with your life.
So again, don’t think of your ex’s unblocking as an opportunity to get back in contact with your ex. Stay in no contact instead and let your dumper ex reach out when he or she is ready.
In this article, we’ll talk about what it means when an ex unblocks you on Facebook, Instagram, or on any other social media platform. We’ll also provide you with some simple advice on what to do when your ex unblocks you all of a sudden.
Why did my ex unblock me after months?
First of all, unblocking isn’t one of the surefire signs that your ex misses you and that he or she is coming back to you. It’s merely a sign that your ex has made emotional progress.
Progress that was made by:
- thinking about you in a positive light
- or going through something bad or unpleasant that caused your ex to reflect on his or her behavior
I can’t tell you which of the two it was, but if your ex unblocked you and hasn’t reached out, it’s most likely the former.
Your ex probably thought about the way he or she treated you after the breakup (and the pain he or she has caused you), so your ex unblocked you and left it at that.
Although your ex could have apologized to you for making you suffer, your ex figured that apologizing wouldn’t have made him or her any happier.
That’s because your ex wasn’t after your forgiveness.
Your ex was (and still is in a position of power) and just wanted to forgive himself or herself and move on without remorse.
So if you’re wondering, “Why did my ex unblock me but hasn’t reached out,” the quickest explanation is that your ex unblocked you for himself or herself.
Your ex did it because your ex wanted to move forward with a clean conscience while avoiding all contact with you.
Here’s a picture that will explain why your ex unblocked you weeks or months after the breakup.
It’s also possible that your ex wanted to catch up
Sometimes dumpers unblock their exes because they want to exchange a few quick words with them. They want to catch up with them and see what they’ve been missing out on.
Keep in mind that such dumpers don’t want to communicate and reconnect the love bond.
They want to communicate to see how their exes feel about them and how they are doing.
As a dumpee who got unblocked weeks or months after getting blocked, this isn’t an opening for you to get back in touch with your ex and woo your ex. Your job as a person who got dumped is to self-prioritize and keep healing.
That’s it. That’s all you have to do.
Don’t think that your ex is also doing no contact and that your ex wants you to make the first move. If that were true, your ex would be extremely selfish.
He or she would be someone who abuses the power of the dumper just to preserve his or her ego.
Your ex could want you to make the move only if he or she wanted you back and was afraid of a rejection. But in that case, your ex would have no choice but to take the risk. Not speaking to you would give your ex pain, so your ex would eventually be forced to reach out and ask you out.
That’s why you can’t go wrong if you stay in no contact. Your ex won’t think that you’ve moved on, and because of that and leave you alone. Not if he or she wants you back!
You and I both know that someone who loves another person would swim oceans to get another chance at love. He or she would do crazy desperate things.
So have faith and trust the rational side of your brain.
Even if your ex misses you and wants to talk to you, you’re not responsible for breaking no contact, chasing, begging, or doing anything that would lower your self-esteem and get you rejected again.
Your ex is more than capable of messaging or calling you. With all the social media platforms out there, your ex could do it with the snap of a finger.
My ex unblocked me after a year
Everyone knows that dumpers focus completely on themselves after the breakup and that they forget about their exes. It’s no secret.
But what people don’t know is that when dumpers focus on themselves and have fun, that they process the negative emotions that incited them to block their exes. Most of the time, they gradually stop feeling smothered, angry, cold, victimized or whichever negative emotion they felt right after the breakup and become much more neutral about their exes.
They may not fall back in love with their exes because love requires a lot of positive feelings, but they nonetheless get out of the negative bubble that engulfed them.
Thats why most dumpers reach out eventually and start to breadcrumb their exes.
So if you’re wondering why would an ex unblock you after a year or two, the answer you’re looking for is that your ex has had enough time to cool off.
Due to the space you’d given your ex, you’d allowed your ex to do what he or she wanted—and indirectly sent your ex a strong message.
A message that you’re moving on and that it’s safe to unblock you. This is especially true for dumpees who begged and pleaded after the breakup.
What do I do if my ex unblocked me but hasn’t reached out?
If your ex unblocked you but hasn’t reached out, the first thing you should do is answer a few very important questions.
How and why do you even know that your ex unblocked you? Have you been stalking your ex on social media? Did your ex show up under your recommended friends?
Or did your ex’s online status light up again and you happened to notice it?
If you accidentally noticed that your ex unblocked you on social media or on various communication platforms such as Instagram, Skype, or Messenger, you probably couldn’t have done much about it. The site or application you’re using notified you about your ex’s unblocking, so it wasn’t your fault.
But if you intentionally stalked your ex on social media and noticed that you got unblocked, then that’s a whole different story.
You were looking for information and were asking to get hurt.
In that case, it’s very important that you don’t act on instinct and message your ex. If you reach, chances are that you’ll do more harm than good.
You’ll give your ex the power that no contact has given you and by doing so, start craving your ex’s affection again. As long as you’re not over your ex yet, remember that communicating with your ex won’t encourage your ex to come back.
It’ll just raise your hopes for reconciliation and cause you an emotional setback.
While it’s true that some dumpers unblock their exes and hope that their exes will contact them, it’s also true that the majority 0f them don’t want that. Most exes, unfortunately, unblock their dumpees just to convince themselves that they aren’t hateful people.
With that in mind, here’s what you need to do when your ex unblocks you on social media.
So if you’re wondering, “Why did my ex unblock me but didn’t reach out,” know that your ex doesn’t have a reason to converse with you. Your ex has a reason to unblock you because your ex stopped feeling smothered, but your ex doesn’t have a reason to get back in touch with you.
At least not yet.
Most likely because your ex:
- is worried how you’ll react
- feels uncomfortable talking to you
- or is afraid of hurting you again (not common for dumpers who don’t feel guilty and resort to blocking)
Carry on as if nothing happened
As far as you’re concerned, nothing has changed. Other than your ex making some emotional progress and thinking that it’s safe to unblock you, your ex is still your ex.
He or she is still staying away from you because communication brings your ex more discontent than content.
That’s why you should unfollow your ex immediately. You should do it so that you can push your ex out of sight and protect yourself.
If that doesn’t work for you because you can’t stop stalking your ex, then consider deleting your profile. You don’t need to say goodbye to your Instagram pictures, and Facebook posts forever, but do keep in mind that if you stay active that you’ll most likely keep analyzing your ex.
You’ll keep hurting yourself and stay hooked on your ex.
When your ex unblocks you on Snapchat and places where you can communicate with your ex directly or through a story, remember that communication is not something your ex wants.
Your ex is not in love with you.
Your ex is probably just curious about you and wants to know what you’ve been up to. And that’s it!
So before you start sending your ex messages and post gazillions of selfies to your story, remember that doing that will probably overwhelm your ex.
It will make your ex feel unpleasant emotions and could even infuriate your ex to the point where your ex feels the need to run away and block you again.
Unfortunately, if you’re in indefinite no contact, your ex’s silence speaks for itself. It says that your ex doesn’t want to speak to you or isn’t ready to speak to you and that you must stay away from your ex.
You must do it for your own good.
What does it mean when your ex keeps unblocking you?
When an ex keeps blocking and unblocking you, it means that your ex is curious about you, but not curious enough to reach out. It’s a sign that no contact is working and that it’s having a positive effect on your ex, but again, not an effect positive enough to inspire your ex to reach out.
That’s because exes who block and unblock all the time aren’t blocking and unblocking to lure their ex into reaching out. They’re doing it because they’re lonely, bored, or occasionally sad and want to know what and how their ex is doing.
In other words, they keep checking up on their ex.
You need to understand that more often than not, dumpeprs’ actions are of emotional nature and have nothing to do with their love for their dumpee. It’s all about the events going on in their lives and how those events affect their emotional well-being.
I hope that this article has explained why dumpers unblock months or years after the breakup and refuse to reach out. If you agree with what’s written here, comment below. If you don’t agree, comment as well. I’d like to hear what you think.
My name is Zan and I’m the founder of Magnet of Success. I enjoy writing realistic relationship and breakup articles and helping readers heal and grow. With more than 5 years of experience in the self-improvement, relationship, and breakup sphere, my goal is to provide advice that fosters positivity and success and avoids preventable mistakes and pain. Buy me a coffee, learn more about me, or get in touch today.
This is a very helpful advise page I wished I already read this 12 years ago 2010. My Narcissist Ex gf dumped me for another guy and even ruined my reputation to everyone. She made it looked that I was the bad person well in fact I’m not answering back at her and just begging for her not to leave. She did’nt replied since the day we broke up feb 2010 days before valentines and reportedly she had a date with a guy and she blocked me on facebook ,twitter after I saw her post smearing me. My whole world shattered and it changed me since then from being a happy person to a quiet serious one.
I met my wife a year after that incident 2011 and she really love me so much that she tried everything just to heal me. However, all these years even me and my wife got 3 kids, my issue with my ex gf still resurfaces in my head and I’m fighting it for years.
Several times she unblocked me then blocked me again. In 2017, she unblocked me again, I messaged her that I got a wife and kids I just want to make peace with her and also wish her with her new life if she has a partner but instead she silent and blocked me. I was tired and decided to move on and be quiet.
In 2019, I was walking on a mall then suddenly my ex gf approached my lane yards away, looking at me smiling and would engage to a conversation.We always cross-paths since we parted ways but most of the time she will avoid me and it’s the first time that she did this. I don’t know what I really felt, I just felt tired of chasing her and I just WALK and LOOKING THROUGH her like I don’t see her at all. I saw how her face changed from happy to bitter and she decided to walk away.
2022 something made me to check on her and I found out that she blocked me again and just ignored it. I stopped myself again but now 2023 I checked on her again and found out she unblocked me again. I finally decided to block her.
I love her very much way back then, she is my first gf and I was her first bf, but I knew she has issues at home and herself and I also admit that I also came to a problematic family a narcissist as well and my wife took me and saved me. I’m always guilty of my wife because she loves me very much and I want this THING with my EX GF to be cut-off forever. I wish that MY MEMORY OF MY EX_GF WOULD BE TOTALLY ERASED FROM MY HEAD. Do you have any advise that can you give me, please, thank you very much.
Hi Kenichi.
You’ll never erase your ex from your head. But what you can do is forgive yourself and her. Do this with therapy, journaling, exercising, praying, etc. Just don’t rely on your ex for healing because that’s the worst idea ever. Your ex can’t help you with this, Kenichi. You need to find a way to let go of her. I suggest you keep her blocked and don’t check up on her anymore. Promise yourself that you won’t act on temptations to type in her name and that you’ll find ways to distract yourself.
That’s how you do it. I wish you the best of luck!
Sincerely,
Zan
My ex told me that we quit the relationship, ofcourse I begged, she kept liking my messages but not responding, then pulled down hwe comments on my social media photos, this prompted me to go NC, after a week she posted her photos on her IG stories and i accidently viewed them and didnt comment or like them and she blocked me and unblocked me after three weeks but has made NC, i was thinking of contacting her but now i feel like its not the right thing to do since she lashed out without even asking what or why. I am sure she has moved on and must be in a new relationship now but just wondering why she unblocked me after such a short time.
Hi David.
Don’t message your ex just because she unblocked you. If you do that, you’ll give her more reasons to feel uncomfortable and block you. Stay in no contact instead!
Best,
Zan
This was so extremely helpful. Definitely gave me a different perspective & gave me things to believe & think positively about.
My ex blocked me after I (embarrassingly) begged for him to come back & at least tell me what went wrong. He has a constant cycle of pushing people that love him out his life. This time, it was me he pushed away. He broke up with me, blocked me, then unblocked me. I mistakenly took that as a sign that he wanted to be in contact again as we haven’t talked for about a month. I contacted him & became hopeful again. He now has blocked me yet again. It has showed me that he is playing games & I’m just over it. After understanding that he unblocked me for his own personal gain, I am backing off. This time, I too blocked him after I realized he was checking up on me but ignoring me. I’m not going to contact him anymore & this time, I will try to heal as this break up has been completely hard on me.
Thank you for this article!
Hi Yoshi.
Don’t reach out anymore. You’ve got to let him come to you and not the other way around. Always remember that the dumper will do all the work and that your only responsibility is to heal and get over him.
Sincerely,
Zan
I blocked my ex about a month after he dumped me.i had already unfollowed him & made him unfollow me a few days after the break up but he would watch my stories every so often and it would upset me since we were in NC. I finally felt better about everything and decided to unblock him after 3 months and literally the next day he was watching my stories. It increased to where just this past weekend he started liking my stories! Mind you he does not follow me so he’s intentionally searching for me. This bothers me bc I think he’s playing games when I think if he was mature, he would just message me or call me but it’s confusing! I am still sticking to NC bc I still think he needs to reach out directly. I’m just a little thrown off and confused at these actions. Should I block him again or just keep continuing not acknowledging what he’s doing?
Hi Jonathan.
I don’t think he’s playing games. He’s checking up on you without messaging you because he’s curious and doesn’t want to get back in touch yet. He’d rather keep his distance. If blocking you will help you heal, then go for it. But make sure to stick with whatever decision you make.
Kind regards,
Zan
My ex and I have been in NC since September 2021. I noticed a couple of days ago that he’d unblocked me. Almost a month ago he “accidentally” called a really close friend of mine who he knows I meet every single day. I’m so confused as to what he wants now. What do you think his behaviour means?
Hi Confused.
The unblocking part means that he’s realized he overreacted and that he doesn’t want to be that person who blocks exes. As for the calling, I’m not sure. It could be accidental or attention-seeking. Only time will tell.
Kind regards,
Zan
Hello,
I met a guy right off the bat it was very fun and organic. He let me know immediately he has PTSD from military in Afghanistan. We haven’t know one another for long but it feels just as tough and real when he distanced himself and blocked me on text. This is now the second time. He apologized the first time. And we chatted for hours often. Then he saw I was excited in my tone again. And said it was too much. Next day I was blocked. He unblocked me now, I found out by texting him randomly. And the text turn blue instead of green. Anyway I was blocked for a month this time. Not as long as last but it still hurt.
So, he hasn’t said anything. Not contact.
Do I forget him. I know he is going through a lot of trauma from the war. But I have my own trauma and this is heavy on my heart.
What do I do?
Hey Zan, so long story short an ex of mine the dumper broke up with me 2 years ago, wasn’t my best moment I begged smh and got blocked on everything. So fast forward to now I just happen notice her name came up on a facebook memory of mine from years ago, didn’t know I was unblocked I was doing great moving forward so I didn’t notice. Then a friend of mine commented on it and I noticed that all the sudden she was I tagged and another memory of me from hers was removed I guess. I was just curious what this could mean because we had a bad breakup. Thank you for your insight.
Hi Kevin.
I’m not sure what you meant to say. Can you explain the last part again?
Best regards,
Zan
So basically my ex unblocked me, I just happened to notice I wasn’t digging or spying. Then I noticed someone who wasn’t a friend viewing my stories, now since facebook doesn’t reveal who they are since we aren’t friends it up for speculation who it could be. But I just wanted to know what would make an ex unblock you but none of your family after they made sure to block every route possible of communication with them? In short why would an ex unblock me?
Hi Kevin.
An ex would unblock you for realizing that she overreacted and that she may want to talk to you one day. It’s by no means an invitation to message her though.
Best,
Zan
My ex unblocked me after 4 years. He’s married now but he started inviting my brother and father out for dinner.I blocked him cause he’s married theres nothing to say. Im curious what does he want!!!!!!!!!!
so after about 5 months of no contact he reached out in this forum where i left him a message during the breakup..an “icebreaker” type message so i didn’t respond. I didn’t know what to say and it was a meaningless message like “what a weird place to message me lol” like ok? this is the forum where we first met lol so whatever, i ignored it.
2 months later i noticed he unblocked me on snapchat but didn’t add me back or message me..i didn’t look for it..his name just appeared again on my chat list..
should i reach out at this point?
Hello.
My ex unblocked me after a year on whatsapp the 31 the December. He didnt contact me i didnt write or call him… After such day he post everyday an status picture, sometimes such status post looks as have relation with me in positive or negative ways, depend of day…. I am looking the status intentionally sometimes and other times i hide my self for him doesnt notice i was looking the post, you know for dont make his ego grow, or show my evident interest on he.
I dont know why he unblocked me, the intentions… When we had a relationship he never posted status or anything, he isn’t biggest fan of social networks, i dont know what he pretends with it…
May i start a conversation? Is he waiting for i do the next step? Soon is his birthday, will i send a short text for birthday?
Thank you for you blog
How has your story developed? has he contacted you? why has he blocked you? My ex keeps me blocked, 4 months have passed, little more. I found out that she is trying to get closer to a friend of mine, I suppose she is trying to know how the waters are. His birthday is this week but I won’t extend my hand.
I’d love to know what happened to your story and those of other dumpees regarding the crash. It helps me to read your comments and prepare to react in the future if she ever contacts me. Thanks a lot!
My ex unblocked me after 3 months, 5 months NC on whatsapp. She asked how I was doing and we had a little chat.
After five messages I asked to catchup in real life.
She said: “ ah i dunno if it is wise to meet, you need to get over me first and then we’ll see.”
She still assumes I have feelings or testing the waters.
I know she went back to her ex before me and he broke up with her last month and she is quite depressed. She has a history of bad boys/toxic man and somehow keeps falling back to them.
Anyway I somewhere do miss her and wanna give it another shot.
I replied:” cool let me know when you changed your mind! Nice hearing from you and stay in touch.” Now back to NC.
Any advice?
Hi Zan,
What are your thoughts on deleting your ex’s contact to preserve your own mental well-being. So not blocking but removing any reminders or triggers in moments of weakness. I would love your opinion on that, perhaps a future article….Thank you for your words of wisdom!
Ive been NC for 4 months the breakup happened in October. She started dating someone we both knew a week after the breakup so clearly she was monkey branching and cheated! My ex blocked me from everywhere she even blocked my friends from watching her Instagram stories. First she unblocked all my friends and then On Christmas day she unblocked me and sent me a merry xmas message and she even send me hugs and kisses, it took me 2 days to answer just wished her the same and left it at that. After that day no more communication!
Hi OR.
It’s better that your ex doesn’t leave you breadcrumbs. This way, you can heal and continue to get over her in peace.
Stay strong!
Zan
You are a legend zan!!! Thank you so much
Thank you, Linx.
I hope the blog helps.
Zan
Great article Zan! as always.
It’s has been little over a year since the breakup for me, I went no contact for 4 months, she broke it and lashed out on me… I went no contact for 5 months, then she broke it again, and even though this time she was on a better move, eventually she lashed out…
I mean after 10 months of the breakup (I went NC after a months of the breakup) she still has resentment towards me? we both did our share of bad moves during and after the breakup, but I apologised for my shortcomings which she never did…
She even once told me I had to recognise that I lost a great opportunity not being with her…
Anyway, I used this moments when she contacted me to let her show me who she was, how mature and the level of emotional intelligence she has, and that helped me decide she’s not a person a want in my life, at least not in the state she’s at.
I’ve made a ton of work in myself, I’ve learned so much. I didn’t even get triggered when she tried to…
Why would even considered having a conversation with someone who has not made any progress, is always in the right and for whom empathy is a word that applies only to her, but she shows not empathy for anyone else? (she literally told me “Why would I consider anyone else’s point of view, if it leaves nothing to me?” at that point I knew I had nothing to do with her, since there was no hope of having a normal conversation, unless I agreed to everything she said…)
So I would add, those moments when an ex unblocks and contact you, just to talk you down and try to make your like miserable…
Anyway, once again thank you for a great article Zan!!
All the best from Chile,
Tom.
Hi Tom.
It looks like your ex wasn’t able to let go of her resentment for you despite the space she got. Apologizing couldn’t help her either because she felt victimized, so leave her alone forever. It doesn’t seem that she’s working on herself.
Great job for keeping your composure and for the work you’ve done on yourself thanks to your ex. She may not have been able to improve (dumpers usually don’t), but you definitely did.
Best regards,
Zan
Seems like your ex is a narcissist. You dodged a bullet.
So its a little more than 4 months since my ex dumped me. We have been friendly to each other the whole time. She has been seeing someone since shortly after the break up. Yesterday she told me she was no longer seeing that guy. She asked me if I was over her, I said no. And she said that once I was over her we could maybe hang out as friends. Why does she say that out of the blue. She knows I love her. Im frustrated and confused. Does she maybe want to give us another shot some day but doesnt want to get my hopes up? Or simply just hang out with someone?
It means you need to forget about that selfish, cheating twit that clearly does not have your best interest in mind. Besides, why would you want her back after she’s been tossed and used by someone else? That’s disgusting. I wouldn’t touch my ex if she was the last female on earth. Yuck. There are tons of hot women out there. TONS. Yes I know it hurts when you care about someone, but it’s clearly one sided. Ignore her completely and when the time is right, you will find someone new of much higher value. At that point, you’ll kick yourself for even contemplating your ex. Your ex made her decisions when she left. Now let her live with it. Like I said in previous posts, most of the time, they never find someone better – just someone easier and in the long run, a lot of them end up miserable feeding cats and watering flowers. You have been blessed Brian.
Thank you! She doesn’t deserve me. I will let her work hard for me if she wants me back.
DK you talk about your ex as if she was an object. No wonder she left you. Why don’t you care that the other women were also more than likely and tossed and used before you’ve even met them? Makes no sense to me.
I agree that taking them back is likely bad, but not because they were tossed and used, but rather because they thought of us as replacable. I was unsatisfied with my ex in the first 3 years of our relationship, she was needy and selfish as hell, yet I couldn’t leave her. I’ve felt like a monster for wanting to leave someone who loved me so much. She didn’t have a speck of remorse when the tables turned and I started developing feelings for her. She made the breakup the most painful possible. Now that’s something that makes me wonder why should I consider talking to her if she reached out. Not the fact that she was used by another disgusting person I considered one of my best friends. (She monkeybranched to a friend.)
Hi Brian, I think your ex meant what she wrote. Maybe she doesn’t have any bad feeling towards you, but she has moved on. You have to ask yourself that question, specially since you mentioned she dated someone else shortly after the breakup…
Personally, if I was you, I would keep working on myself, keep busy and try to remove any emotional attachment I have with the ex, and at that point decide whether or not I want her back.
I’m not saying that the two of you should not hang out or talk from time to time, but remember, the key to a healthy relationship or in this case if you want her back and stay together in the long run, is that both of you go through a healing process, and that both of you work out whatever differences you had in the past and leave said differences in the past.
You’ll ruin all the work you’ve done if the two of you, after some period of time, get back together, but you realise she hasn’t (or you) changed at all.
That’s what happened to me, after the breakup, I went no contact (I used to work with her and saw her everyday, but I didn’t even say hello, after she stopped even doing that to me) it was hard, specially seen her everyday. But I went no contact for 4 months, and then she reached out, instead of coming humble, she literally demanded an apology…
After a few days she lashed out and started to talk to me in a very mean way and I went no contact for 5 months, until she reached out once again… This time she came on a better mood and we actually had some good time, but then she started blaming me for everything, etc. Then I told her “you’re the same person I left almost a year ago, you haven’t changed one bit…” and I decided to move on for good.
So as I said, just keep working on yourself, I know 4 months is not a long time, but you’ve made some progress. Focus on yourself, on the things you like, try not to reach you ex, that will only slow down the process. Then, when you feel like you can talk to her, without getting excited or expectant about your future together, reach out and see what the future holds for you two.
Whatever happens, I wish you the best.
Take care,
Tom
Thank you all for great input
Great article Zan! I was confused when my dumper ex kept blocking and unblocking me, we have mutual FB friends so I was able to tell that I was being blocked and unblocked over the last few months. I’m happy to say that my ex unblocked me about a month ago and hasn’t reached out which I’m fine with, the more I concentrate on myself the easier it gets to move on. I’ve been in no contact for about 4 months now it’s definitely the smartest move for a dumpee. Thank you for your wisdom!
Hi Kelvin.
Thanks for reading the blog!
It’s only going to keep getting easier. Stay focused on yourself and you’ll overcome this!
Zan
I appreciate that Zan! Keep up the good work! It really does get easier if you focus on self improvement.
Wow love this article! Made me smile and realize that everything that you say it’s true!
We should never forget that: “If your ex wanted you back, your ex would have made the phone call himself or herself and would have apologized to you. Your ex would have done everything in his or her power to get your trust back.”
Thank you Zan for always helping all of us 🤍
Hi Linda.
Exes who come back, do so on their own. They don’t need pressuring.
Thanks for the comment!
Zan