Does your ex seem unaffected by the breakup and you don’t know why? It might surprise you that most exes are unaffected by the breakup. They’d been thinking about breaking up for so long that they wanted to break up more than anything. They couldn’t wait to deliver the bad news to their soon-to-be exes […]
When someone ghosts you, your initial feeling is perplexion. You don’t know what you did or didn’t do that made you get ghosted. You don’t know if you said something you shouldn’t have, if you weren’t interesting or attractive enough, or if the ghoster found someone better, new, or different to spend time with. Because
Boyfriends and ex-boyfriends sometimes feel guilty and avoid their (ex)partners. They have a fear of confrontation and don’t know how to deal with difficult emotions, so they avoid their partners or ex-partners and focus on feeling good. By prioritizing their positive emotions, they ignore the bad ones and by doing so avoid fixing the issues
Did you ever want to prove your ex wrong and make your ex regret dumping you and/or being with someone else? I know I did. I wanted my ex to see I learned from the breakup and that I could make her happier than any other person. I wanted her to know I was emotionally
If you had an argument with your boyfriend and you want to know if he will come back after the silent treatment, you need to ask yourself who’s giving the silent treatment to who and why? Are you giving him the silent treatment because he keeps reaching out and confusing you or did he lose
Some dumpees wonder if it’s better to be mysterious after a breakup than it is to post on social media and let their ex see and hear what’s going on with them. They want to know whether they should stay in their ex’s life or disappear altogether. Although every breakup is different, the truth is
When your ex sees you moving on, your ex probably won’t react in any significant way. Your dumper ex will be okay with you taking care of yourself and enjoying your life as seeing you moving on will reassure your ex that you’re doing fine and that he or she no longer needs to feel
The journey of self-discovery that follows a breakup can lead to significant personal changes. It can force dumpees to suffer and grow and make dumpers so relieved that they do things they previously didn’t do and said they wouldn’t do. Some dumpers treat their exes poorly during the breakup and destroy their exes’ self-esteem whereas
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Showing up at your ex’s house unannounced is probably one of the worst things you can do as a dumpee. Not only do you shock your ex, but you also force your ex to communicate with you and feel bad for hurting you. You do five things at once: guilt-trip your ex, smother your ex,
Many couples transition from a physical relationship to a long-distance one and break up shortly after the transition or even before that. They do this because their commitment to each other is lacking and dependent on how much they can benefit from each other rather than how much they can give. They don’t see the
Big age-gap couples often downplay each other’s age. They say things like, “He’s older, so he’s more experienced” or she’s younger, but she’s very mature for her age. They don’t take into account that they’re both in different stages of life and that if something goes wrong, the younger person might want to explore a
People are desperate to find someone new after the breakup for various reasons. Dumpees are desperate because they’re hurt and want to feel validated and secure whereas dumpers are detached and eager to meet new people. They want to forget about their ex and experience everything life has to offer. For many dumpers, “everything” includes