Back in early January, I reported that I was in my fourth month of no contact with my ex, and I shared with you how it felt to be in no contact. My ex decided to go back to an abusive ex-boyfriend late last summer, but she never formally told me that she was leaving […]
If I got a penny every time I heard someone say “I miss my ex so much, and I can’t live without her,” I would be rich by now. I completely understand you lost someone incredibly important to you. He or she has been a part of your life for very long, and you have
Is your ex’s birthday coming up while you are in no-contact? Do you have doubts about whether you should reach out and wish your ex a happy birthday? It’s highly probable that you are in no-contact, and you’re trying to decide if reaching out in a kind, respectful manner is the right thing to do.
There are many reasons why exes come back. In a nutshell, they come back for love, security, and validation. But why would an ex come back after he said he would never get back together with you? I know you might not be interested in knowing why exes come back, as long as he is
I often hear people ask me a very common question “Does my ex want me to reach out first? Maybe he’s just afraid I will start begging him to take me back. Or perhaps, he knows he’s hurt me deeply and is now afraid to come out of his shell?” Before I get into more
I know how difficult it is to completely remove yourself from the life of someone you love very much. That’s because I did exactly that this past summer. I’m presently in my fourth month of no contact. To help you cope with your own emotions of going no contact, in this article I’m sharing the
Instead of reveling in a summer romance this year, you suffered a summer breakup. You did all the right things after the breakup, however. You didn’t whine, you didn’t plead, you didn’t beg your ex to give you another chance. You protested a bit, of course, and told your ex that he or she was
Maintaining no contact with your ex is without a doubt one of the hardest things to pull off in life. Because of the complexity of emotions you’ll deal with, you need to develop incredible resistance to stick with no contact indefinitely. Dumpees who are able to go cold turkey experience enormous mood swings, both positive
Have you ever wondered why you felt so inclined to want to be with your ex? Your brain probably convinced you that you absolutely had to be with this person and that you need him or her to be happy. I want you to take your rose-tinted glasses off for a minute and really engage
The success of the no contact rule in general means that you get contacted by your ex-partner and not necessarily get him or her back. To get your ex back, you have to efficiently re-open the channels of communication, showcase change, and re-attract your ex back. These three things have nothing to do with no
If you’re asking yourself, “can you love too much,” allow me to explain why you most certainly can. This article is for those who find themselves falling head over heels in love with their romantic partner. Loving too much Everyone enters a relationship for the sake of reaping the benefits of the relationship. In a
In this article, I will discuss the positives and the negatives of getting back with an ex. There are many things to consider when you are deciding whether you should start a new relationship with your ex. I would like to start by pointing out why you shouldn’t get back with your ex first and