She Broke Up With Me Because Of Zodiac Signs

When a girl breaks up with you because of “incompatible” zodiac signs, she proves that she isn’t interested in getting to know you as a person. She’s much more interested in taking astrologers’ opinions about you because those are the people she respects and strongly believes in.

She thinks that they know you better than she does and that her fate is written in the stars rather than in her personality and the work she does on herself.

A woman with this kind of mentality won’t take the time to see if the two of you are capable of working together and growing as a couple. Instead, she’ll decide on the fate of the relationship when she first encounters the difficulties astrologers have warned her about.

She’ll tell you that your zodiac signs don’t match and that your relationship will have arguments, unhappiness, and maybe even pregnancy issues. Her exact reasons for breaking up will depend on the things she hears from the people who judge relationships based on the positions of the planets.

So if you got dumped because of unmatching zodiac signs, the first thing you need to understand is that the woman you like can’t be reasoned with. She has been brainwashing her mind with astrology for so long that there’s nothing you can say or do to change her mind now that she broke up with you.

All you can do is accept the breakup and give her what she wants – time to herself.

If she was open to conversing about her reasons for leaving and changing her beliefs, you could talk to her about it. But since she doesn’t care about what you have to say and is fixated on her beliefs, she’s going to stay closed-minded for a very long time. Probably for as long as she keeps obsessively reading about astrology, watching astrology videos, and getting her readings done.

What makes this kind of breakup difficult is the belief that she isn’t compatible with you and that you can’t change who you are at the core. In all honesty, though, you shouldn’t even have to change who you are. You should remain who you are because that’s what makes you-you.

So instead of opposing her premeditated decisions and convincing her that zodiac signs aren’t something couples should worry about, let your ex-girlfriend believe what she wants.

Let her study zodiac signs and put her faith in them while you distance yourself from her and recover from the breakup. That may not bring her back, but at least you’ll keep your pride and show her that you’re not as gullible as she is.

If you’re hoping to get back with this woman, I have to tell you that it won’t be easy. Beliefs take months or even years to develop. And because they take so long to develop, they also take a lot of time to change. So don’t expect this person to change her mentality any time soon.

For her to change, she has to decide to forget about astrology (or take it less seriously) and put in the effort.

That’s why you need to focus on yourself and rebuild your self-esteem. Moving on won’t be easy, but it’s all you can do when you get dumped because of zodiac signs. It’s all you should do because you deserve much more than she can offer.

In this post, we’ll shed some light on breaking up because of zodiac signs. We’ll talk about what kind of people believe in astrology the most and what your ex or the person you dated/wanted to date needs to undergo to change her mind about you.

What kind of people believe in zodiac signs the most?

People all over the world believe in zodiac signs. But the country that takes it the most seriously is India. Many believers there are under the impression that the quality of their lives is predetermined by their zodiac sign and that they must shape their life around their sign rather than decide their own fate and do the things they love.

The reason for that is that zodiac signs make them feel understood and appreciated. They give them tailored descriptions of their personalities and instructions that reassure them that they’ll be okay as long as they do what they’re “supposed” to do.

Due to a lack of self-governance, such people enjoy letting external forces dictate their lives. They consider them to be an authority, so they submit to them and allow themselves to be swayed.

Perhaps it’s because they don’t like the way their lives unfolded and don’t want to be responsible for their own actions anymore. Maybe they just want to obey those who have been right about their pasts before and go all-in with them.

In India, parents are often the ones who decide what’s best for their children (who they marry and what job they should have). So perhaps this incessant need to trust an expert (someone with wisdom, experience, and authority) is deeply engraved in their culture.

Anyway, it’s not just Indians who believe in astrology. Many people like to put their trust in astrology.

But from a psychological perspective, the people who take it the most seriously are those who:

• desire to be understood
• want to know what went wrong in their lives
• wish to predict the future
• hope to be happy again
• and those who are hurting or unhappy with their relationships, jobs, health, or various circumstances

Before I continue, let me assure you that there’s nothing wrong with believing in astrology. If you think your sign describes your characteristics well, the discovery that you’re not alone can give you a feeling of understanding and hope. It can empower you with happy hormones and like anything good, make you crave more of it.

It becomes a problem only when you take astrology so seriously that you think your whole life revolves around it.

That’s when you start following its rules so religiously that you forget common sense and become fully devoted to it.

People who go to extremes with it that tend to overprioritize astrology and undervalue psychology. They think that astrology is the reason they turned out the way they did and not because of their parents, society, experiences, thoughts, and behaviors that shaped them throughout their lives.

This is why they turn to supernatural explanations for their behavior and experiences and neglect the real reasons they are the way they are. This is bad because when they say “It’s not my fault I am where I am today,” they think that change comes to them on its own and that they needn’t do anything to improve their lives.

Why do zodiac signs breakups happen?

The reason why zodiac signs breakups happen up is that people take astrology too seriously. They agree with the good parts of their zodiac sign and focus on the negative parts of their partner’s sign—and as a result, become doubtful about their partner’s ability to make them happy.

This is why they stop investing in their partner, neglect the relationship, and single-handedly sabotage their relationship. In their mind, it’s not their fault. They believe that their partner isn’t the best person for them because he or she was born at the wrong time.

When you think about it that way, it sounds quite silly, doesn’t it? Why would anyone leave their partner because of something so trivial?

Well, to zodiac signs believers, it’s not trivial at all. They break up with their partners because astrology convinces them that they aren’t happy with the way their relationship works and that they deserve more. That’s why they choose to justify their unhappiness, anger, or contempt and break up with their partner when they develop enough resentment and fall out of love.

They say that their relationship isn’t meant to be and that they should find more compatible partners.

The truth though is that the relationship has everything it needs to succeed. Everything but a healthy mentality that is. With a healthy mentality, the relationship could survive doubts and develop a foundation on which the relationship could blossom.

So if your girlfriend broke up with you because of zodiac signs differences and you’re not sure why she fell out of love and broke up with you so suddenly, keep in mind that your girlfriend puts a big importance on zodiac signs. She believes that zodiac signs are the prerequisite to happy, long-lasting relationships and that hard work comes after.

With that said, the image below shows 5 reasons why she said that you weren’t astrologically compatible.

Do zodiac signs determine how good your relationship is?

Zodiac signs don’t decide how attracted you are to your partner, how compatible you are, and whether or not you and your partner can stay in love for years to come. They don’t determine your romantic success because the quality of a relationship has nothing to do with zodiac signs.

It’s got everything to do with:

• self-awareness
• relationship skills
• perceptions
• mental health
• self-control
• willpower
• moral values
• mutual understanding
• and the ability to grow and water the relationship

I’m a Scorpio and I’ve been in enough relationships to know that the people I was supposed to be compatible with were my worst matches. They were bad for me not because the astrologers got it wrong but because I, my partners, or all of us weren’t mature or interested in each other.

We were different people, so we broke up when we got to know each other and realized that we weren’t willing to adapt and grow together.

The woman I’m with now and have the strongest connection with is actually supposed to be the least compatible with me according to astrology. She’s a Libra and we’re neighbors on the zodiac, but we handle differences and disagreements better than we did with our exes.

Part of that has to do with our personalities, but the biggest reason we work well together is that we talk about our relationship every day. We express gratitude (what we like about each other) and also what we don’t like and how we can make it better.

According to astrologers, our relationship was a poor match destined to fail by the universe. If we believed them the way some people do, we probably would have failed. But because we didn’t pay attention to them, we endured and created our own fate.

So please please, please, please, if you like someone and astrologers say that he or she isn’t the most compatible with you, don’t let them get into your head. Remind yourself that there are millions of astrologically incompatible couples out there who get along and feel fulfilled in their relationships.

I encourage you to read some of their success stories and you’ll see that it’s possible to have a healthy relationship as long as you’re both ready for a relationship and willing to work on it.

What to do if we broke up because of zodiac signs?

I know it’s hard. But if your girlfriend broke up with you because of unmatching zodiac signs, try not to blame yourself for the breakup. She didn’t break up with you because you’re not good enough but because she wasn’t willing to compromise on her beliefs and judge you for the person you are.

Just like couples who break up because of religion, she thought that she’ll have a better chance at being happy with someone who’s better suited for her. With someone compatible with her by default.

Unfortunately, though, there is no such thing as astrological default compatibility. Couples are compatible either because they’ve already done the work on themselves prior to getting together or because they’re willing to work on themselves individually and as a couple.

Those who think that zodiac signs will bring them close and keep them close forever are naive, to say the least. They have no idea that relationships require constant work. Sure, some relationships need more work than others, but as a general rule of thumb, the more work a couple puts into the relationship and themselves, the happier they will be.

So if your ex-girlfriend is closed-minded and doesn’t know how relationships work, don’t assume that her next relationship will be perfect. It likely won’t be because she’ll continue to ignore the importance of self-growth and leave her relationship to fate again.

When that happens, she might realize that she was in the wrong. But if she doesn’t learn from her mistakes, then that’s okay too. At least you’ll know that her ways of thinking are too different from yours and that it’s healthier for you to find someone who accepts you and values you for who you are.

As long as you’re heartbroken or until your ex realizes your worth, you have to stay away from this person. You have to protect yourself from getting false hope or getting hope taken away from you and mind your own business. You can do that simply by following the indefinite no contact rule and investing in areas of your life that need investing.

So start focusing on yourself if you haven’t yet and you’ll find your peace and happiness one way or another when you detach.

Did your ex or someone you were seeing break up with you because of zodiac signs or similar beliefs? How did you respond to it? Let me know what you think of zodiac signs breakups by posting a comment below.

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Zan

My name is Zan and I’m the founder of Magnet of Success. I enjoy writing realistic relationship and breakup articles and helping readers heal and grow. With more than 5 years of experience in the self-improvement, relationship, and breakup sphere, my goal is to provide advice that fosters positivity and success and avoids preventable mistakes and pain. Buy me a coffee, learn more about me, or get in touch today.