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Are you asking yourself “how long before your ex comes back?” To give you an honest answer, your ex will most likely come back in your life when you stop obsessing about him or her. When you prioritize yourself and the ones who care about you, your ex may once again want to be a … Read more
When I was going through a breakup, I had trouble finding things to work on during no contact. Whether you are trying to get back with your ex or move on with your life, you should use this window of opportunity for personal growth. As long as you are able to admit that you can … Read more
If you are reaching out to your ex and he or she is ignoring you, it’s time to stop. Clearly, forcing your way in is not going to get your ex to suddenly want to talk to you. When your ex is ignoring you and you are the one who keeps initiating contact, you are … Read more
Whether you should stay with your ex after the breakup, in my opinion, depends on two factors: how you were treated after the breakup what your ultimate goal is. If you are merely looking for a friendly companion to do the things friends do and nothing more, then go ahead and be friends with your … Read more
No matter how hard the breakup is, all ex-partners should give each other some space right after the separation. How much space and time depends on the ugliness during and after the breakup. Time apart should be determined by factors such as cheating, emotional and physical abuse, manipulation, neediness, lying and so on. The longer … Read more
The best way to make your ex regret breaking up with you is to give her something she will regret. Since your ex is often trying desperately to make you look as bad as possible, your objective is quite the opposite. Instead of engaging in some sort of post-breakup war with your ex, do the … Read more
Just because your ex is trying to move on and appears happy after the breakup, doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t miss you. This person merely feels bad that the relationship has come to an end. Since the last few days/weeks before the breakup were difficult, your ex now feels a sense of relief that … Read more
“How to make my ex love me again” is a question every dumpee first asks him/herself after the breakup. There are many, many things you can do after the breakup, to present yourself in the best light possible. The first thing you must do when your ex breaks up with you is to tell him … Read more
What if your ex is also doing no contact? If you’ve been dumped and are hoping to hear from your ex, then I may have the answers for you. First, I’d like to point out that your ex is definitely doing no contact. But unfortunately, it’s not the same kind of no contact you are … Read more
The question I see people ask often is whether they should break the no contact rule and reach out to their ex. In this article, I will explain when it’s okay to reach out to your ex first after being dumped. This post is only for those who have been dumped (dumpees). Signs to reach … Read more