The rules of no contact are very straightforward, yet so many people refuse to follow them down to the T. Some dumpees instead choose to implement their own versions of no contact and in doing so, prolong the grieving stage. Although 90% of dumpees will hear from their exes again, this doesn’t mean you should […]
This is an interview with the dumpee who got his ex back after 3.5 months—during which he was in no contact. I hope the answers provided by the interviewee helps you better understand the things going on in the mind of the dumper. 1)Can you recall what happened on the day of the breakup? We
So, so many dumpees wonder “Why is my ex avoiding me like the plague? Did I do something wrong? Why is my ex acting like a stranger to me when we’ve been together for x number of years?” If you’re asking yourself these questions because your ex is avoiding you at all cost, I have
Separation anxiety after the breakup is often misunderstood and thrown around like it’s an extremely common breakup symptom. To be fair, it is pretty common, just not with dumpers. Dumpees are the ones who grieve and experience anxiety due to the sudden termination of their relationship. They are the ones who get abandoned, mistreated, belittled
Letting go of an ex is no easy task. If it were, you probably wouldn’t be here, looking for ways to move on. First of all, let me assure you that letting go of your ex doesn’t mean you can’t and won’t ever get back together. Letting go means you accept your breakup and become
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Breakups are incredibly hard. In my opinion, they are the second hardest kind of pain people have to endure. The only disaster that overtakes the pain of a breakup is some sort of illnesses. Everything else in this world pales in comparison with breakups and their difficulties. Not even the death of a family member
You’ve probably been looking out for signs that your ex is miserable without you since the moment your ex broke up with you. If you were, it’s not unusual and I don’t judge you at all. At first, you’ve likely spent endless days and nights stalking your ex’s Facebook, Instagram and other social media accounts
This list is about the 7 different types of exes that come back after they’ve spent some time away from their dumpees. If you recognize your ex or one of your previous exes in the following points, please leave a comment when you’ve finished reading the article. 1)The team player The first and most common
“Is my ex happy in his new relationship? Why does he look so happy on social media? Is he better off without me?” If you’re asking yourself these questions and you’re wondering whether your ex is happy without you, I may be able to answer your questions for you. I have divided this article into
The horror of seeing your ex happy when you’re miserable is devastating beyond comprehension. “How can my ex be happy when I’m so miserable? Why is my ex posting happy pictures on social media when I’m dying on the inside? Is my ex happy in his new relationship?” These are common questions broken-hearted dumpees ask
There are several reasons why the no contact rule is so effective when it comes to getting our exes back. Not only can it have an effect on the person that left us, but it’s also the only way to become happy with ourselves. By now you’ve probably realized that no contact doesn’t work overnight
It’s a huge mistake to believe that the no contact rule entails falling off the face of Earth and leaving no physical trace behind. If that’s what no contact was about, then the no contact rule would be impossible to do when you have kids. Fortunately, this self-imposed rule is not about disappearing completely and