It’s not unusual for an ex to act like you don’t exist. If you happen to see your ex in public and he completely ignores your existence, you’re probably wondering what’s going on. Surely he must have a reason for avoiding eye contact and looking at the ground as if there is something there. What […]
Does your girlfriend want a break, but she still contacts you? If she does, it probably means she wants the best of both worlds. She wants to break up and she wants to stay in contact with you. It sounds like fun, right? Your now (ex)girlfriend clearly likes your attention more than she’s willing to
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“My girlfriend broke up with me for no reason. She told me I was perfect in every way and that she’s never loved anyone as amazing as me before. Why would she break up with me for no reason? Please help!” This is probably one of the most common pleas for help I hear when
If you’re a dumpee and you’re breaking up because of distance, then I assume you’re still in love with your ex. As you’ve already experienced for yourself, physical distance doesn’t make the breakup any easier. A breakup is still a rejection and a denial of love and relationship benefits. When you get broken up with
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The grass is greener syndrome comes in various stages. We have previously mentioned them in the grass is greener syndrome: GIGS article and explained the definition of GIGS. This time, we’ll go into a little more detail and reveal what is going on with the dumper as he or she goes through the grass is
The definition of a monkey-branching relationship is similar to cheating. Monkey-branching occurs when people are considering other options while they are still in a relationship with their partner. They do this to place down a safety net and secure a backup plan in case something goes wrong in their current relationship. Essentially, a dumper that
Dumpees often have struggling days when they feel absolutely devastated and miss their ex more than ever. I can sit here and tell you that time will heal all wounds or I can give you actual tips you should apply immediately after the breakup. You likely feel inclined to “do something” to get your ex
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I oftentimes advise people to put away all gifts after a breakup so they can protect themselves from emotional setbacks. Fortunately, this doesn’t always have to be the case. Not all gifts are detrimental to our health so we’ll go into a bit more detail this time and discern when it’s okay to keep the
Breaking up with someone is no fun. I know it can be difficult to break up with your partner, but giving him a proper face-to-face explanation is the least he deserves. It doesn’t matter how badly he treated you or how guilty you feel for breaking his heart. It’s something you must do out of
There is so much conflicting information about how long no contact should be if you want your ex back. Some say you should break no contact after 30 days and others suggest you wait until you’re ready. If you’re a reader of this blog, then you may already know that the only way to go
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The no contact rule can be classified into three different no contact stages. I will categorize these three stages of no contact for the dumpee by the intensity of grief, anxiety, pain, and self-improvement. Dumpees go through painful emotional upheavals after the breakup. In this article, I will define the long-term effects of stress and
I know it seems so hard to understand why an ex would be angry at you when she dumped you. You may be on your best behavior and you may be saying everything you need to say, but your ex is still angry at you. It’s as if she’s a different person. She replies cold