Did you ever wonder how long no contact takes to work for a dumpee? I know I did. Every time I woke up, I added a day to my no contact counter and wondered if I was a step closer to my goal of getting back together with my ex. Counting the days since I […]
People (especially exes) hate confrontations. They hate being told or reminded they did something wrong and that they need to fix it and be better people. Dumpers are done with the relationship and feel smothered by your presence, hence why they don’t want anything to do with you. They just want to be left alone
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3 weeks into no contact, your ex probably won’t regret leaving you and ask you to get back together. 3 weeks of silence are not enough for an exhausted dumper to get into trouble, change his or her perception of you, and see that leaving you was a big mistake. It’s enough only for dumpers
Many dumpers go on vacation after the breakup. They’re tired from their emotionally-draining relationship and feel elated when they’re away from their ex, so they grab a friend, family member, or new partner and try to have a good time. They don’t care if their ex knows they’re enjoying themselves and posting their happiness on
It’s not appropriate for your ex to demand to meet your new partner. Your relationship is between you and your partner. It doesn’t concern your ex at all, which is why your ex shouldn’t be trying to get you all together and talk face-to-face. There is simply no need to do that. Your ex should
No matter how you look at it, relationships are investments. You put time, effort, money, happiness, and sadness into them and expect commitment in return. If you don’t get the same kind of investment back or if your partner leaves you, you feel that your loyalty has been taken for granted and that your partner
Do you want your ex’s new relationship to fail? What are you hoping to get out of it? If you want your ex to get back together with you, you’re essentially craving your ex’s validation and don’t want your ex to be happy without you. You want your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend to break up with
When your ex-girlfriend says she doesn’t want a relationship with anyone, she’s talking about her feelings in the moment. She feels overwhelmed, so she can’t even imagine herself being with any other person. The breakup has caused her a lot of stress and pressure, which is why all she wants is to be single and
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When your ex insults you, your ex wants you to know that he or she isn’t happy with the breakup. Your ex expected the breakup not to happen or to unfold on his/her terms and to have control over it. Because that didn’t happen, your ex now feels powerless and is trying to regain power
When an ex keeps texting you even though you ignore him, your ex doesn’t care that you need space and quiet. He wants what he wants, so he keeps talking to you despite his reach-outs making you uncomfortable. The guy doesn’t take no for an answer because he thinks his reasons for talking to you
Narcissists are said to be highly competitive, envious, and jealous people and get angry and offended easily. Everything that happens to them and around them makes them feel inferior and triggers their insecurities. Insecurities or negative feelings make them ignore rational thoughts and force them to hurt people. Because of their unhealthy thoughts, behavioral patterns,
When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, he thinks he can’t reciprocate your feelings and be with you romantically. He can only bond as a friend as a relationship with you doesn’t give him the kind of romantic satisfaction he’s looking for. This isn’t your fault. His romantic expectations are just different
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