Do you want to become an alpha male?
Becoming one is a habit so faking alpha traits isn’t an option.
You might fool a girl for a minute, but definitely not in the long run once she gets to know you.
You have to develop a winner’s mindset to exude confidence.
Here are a few necessary steps to take n order to become an alpha male.
1)Believe in alpha
The first step to becoming an alpha male is to believe you are one. Start by convincing yourself and changing your beliefs.
Tell yourself on a daily basis and reaffirm your masculinity.
2)Posture and gait
The right posture will reinforce your convictions.
Become an alpha male by walking with confidence and raising your shoulders.
Hold your head straight and stride towards your destination slowly and decisively.
When you enter a room, look around, acknowledge the people around you and continue on a straight path.
3)Don’t be concerned about other people’s opinions
What others think of you is a beta trait and none of your business. Besides, if people have something to say, they should say it to your face.
Don’t concern yourself with trivial matters. You’ll never be able to change what people think about you anyway.
So don’t let others define you.
4)Attitude
Be assertive and dominant, and at the same time kind and respectful. Becoming an alpha male does not equal to being inconsiderate and generally a di*k.
5)Eye contact
Have a staredown with whomever you meet. Don’t be a creep, of course. Just Hold eye contact for about 4 seconds before looking away and repeating the procedure.
In this way, you will become an alpha male in no time.
6)Dress with style and take care of your physique
Nothing gives the impression that you are alpha faster, other than the clothes you wear.
Wear cool outfits that fit you and take care of your personal hygiene.
7)Non-verbal communication
You want to appear cool and collected. This means no jerky movements and running around like a headless chicken shouting at the top of your lungs.
You are an alpha person, so act like one.
8)Talk with confidence
When you speak, do it slowly with authority. Let your words fill the room with assertiveness and reverberate “alphaness” all over the place.
Also, don’t forget to listen intently and genuinely appear interested in the conversation.
9)Hit the gym
Appearing bigger and stronger is very important if you want to become an alpha male.
Even if you’re a small guy, increasing your muscle mass or toning your body will help you tremendously.
10)Be a leader
Develop leadership skills and remain in charge. This doesn’t, however, mean that you have to be the first person to order a steak.
Be a gentleman and let others pick first.
You can still be alpha by booking a table and choosing where to sit.
A natural leader is a person who cares for other people by putting others first and himself second.
11)Have dreams and goals
Nothing is more attractive than a man with ambitions.
So do your best to live with purpose and meaning. You could do this by finding your passion at work or in your hobbies.
It doesn’t matter as long as your life is heading in the desired direction.
Are you trying to become an alpha male? Comment below.
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I think that article might be misleading for many man. If a man will not read it carefully and miss the part about being a good leader whom takes care about others. All the rest basically meant that alpha take care of being well dressed, fit, dominant but nice. I think we should mention here much more about respect towards the woman and how real/alpha mean act towards the woman, as this is what differenciate man from a boy.
Thanks,
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