When guys break up with their girlfriends, they often say they need some space to focus on themselves and/or think things through. They state that they feel overwhelmed at the moment and that space will help them feel better. What they don’t say is how long they need space and what they’ll do once they’ve […]
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Getting closure without contact is entirely possible. Thousands of dumpees every year get closure without their ex’s presence and assistance. They get it not because they don’t want their ex’s explanations and help, but because their ex doesn’t want to talk/talk about the breakup and help them process the abandonment. Their ex often ignores, shifts
If your ex won’t talk to you and you want her back, your ex likely has a good reason for not talking to you. She probably knows you want her back very badly and feels guilt-tripped, disrespected, and irritated. Your actions convey that you don’t respect her decisions and feelings and that you love her
Getting over someone you still love can take anywhere from a few weeks to a few years. While those are extremes, it typically takes 6 – 12 months, with the average being around 8 months. Most dumpees notice significant emotional improvement around the 8th month, as that’s when they regain their emotional independence, rebuild their
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There’s a lot of conflicting information on the internet about how to get your ex back fast by text message. Many different coaches hold varying opinions, but very few offer realistic advice that actually helps dumpees get what they want, especially in the long run. Most of them only tell dumpees what they want to
I’m sure we can all think of some nasty things that would make our ex angry, stressed, and miserable. Thinking of ways to bring our ex down isn’t that hard, as we know our ex’s secrets and weaknesses better than anyone. We could just share them publicly or with people who have no right to
A relationship with a bipolar person can be highly intense and passionate, yet unpredictable. It can trap a couple in a recurring pattern of emotional highs (and lows), leading to repeated arguments and breakups. This pattern causes them to experience new relationship stages over and over again, including the honeymoon/infatuation stage where they feel temporarily
Will no contact make my ex move on is the question most dumpees concern themselves with. They fear that by staying out of touch, their ex will detach further, find someone new, and move on for good. What they don’t understand is that their ex has already moved on. He or she has fallen out
Breakups are gut-wrenching. They can bring even the strongest dumpees to their knees and leave them obsessed with their ex for weeks, months, or years. Most dumpees ruminate about their ex constantly and wonder what their ex is thinking, feeling, and doing. They want to know if their ex will ever recognize their romantic worth,
There’s a lot to do during and after the no contact rule. Your next steps depend on how the no contact rule ends. If it ends with your ex reaching out and talking about getting back together, you should state your expectations and wait for your ex to agree to them. Of course, be open
Breaking no contact is seldom the right thing to do. Most of the time, it gives you the opposite of the desired results. Instead of telling your ex that you respect his decisions, feelings, and expectations, you overwhelm your ex with expectations of your own and make your ex focus on you rather than himself.
The no contact rule works for long-distance relationships just as it works for no-distance relationships. Distance itself doesn’t change the fact that dumpers need space and time to process the negative emotions caused by the breakup. They must be left alone to enjoy their obligation-free life, fail to reach their post-breakup goals, and discover their
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