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Silence can make a woman miss you. But for her to miss you, the woman you’re using the power of silence on must respect you and care about you. She must think you’re worth her time and effort because that’s the only way she’ll miss you when she doesn’t hear from you. Silence is a … Read more
When a man is angry after a breakup, he doesn’t listen to what you say, do, and expect. He’s done listening to you, reasoning with you, and making changes for you and because of you. The time for compromise is over. It’s time for him to put himself first and protect himself from people and … Read more
If your ex is giving you mixed signals, it’s unlikely that your ex is looking for ways to be with you. Your ex is probably shifting between hot and cold and confusing you because your ex wants to treat you well and be treated well in return. Your ex wants to see that you’re coping … Read more
Before we discuss what to do when your ex won’t stop contacting you, we need to clarify whether your ex is a dumpee or a dumper. If your ex is a dumper, your ex probably feels guilty and thinks it’s okay to stay in touch with exes. Your ex doesn’t know or care that he … Read more
When a man feels guilty after a breakup, he’ll reach out from time to time, take the blame, apologize, explain things, cry, and make himself look stupid. He’ll try to make it seem like he’ll regret his decision years down the line and that he’ll miss you and think about you like crazy. Other times, … Read more
How long you should stay single after a breakup depends on how attached you are to your ex and your ability to process the separation. Some dumpees don’t get attached much and get over their ex in a matter of weeks. They have very little mourning to do because they don’t put all their eggs … Read more
Are you wondering if your ex will ever talk to you again? Do you worry that you’ll never hear from your ex and get back together? If you do, you first need to understand that worrying about your ex reaching out is a complete waste of time. You’re worrying about something that’s completely out of … Read more
If you’re looking for signs your ex is pretending to be happy, you need to know that after the breakup, most dumpers don’t pretend to be happy. They feel happy, relieved, and free because they just exited a relationship that had been smothering them for ages. They felt pressured and unhappy, which is why quitting … Read more
Have you ever wondered how to take someone off a pedestal? Someone like a crush, a taken/married person, a player man/woman, an ex, or someone who can’t be with you or isn’t good for you. If you have, I have a few tips for you that could make a big difference. First of all, taking … Read more
Breaking up after 10 years of being with someone is extremely challenging. Breakups are hard as they are, but when you break up with someone you’ve known for that long, the world comes crashing down on you. Suddenly, you feel unworthy and completely lost. You don’t know if you should fight for the relationship, beg … Read more