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Breakups may feel like competition, but that’s just an illusion. Breakups aren’t about finding another person and marrying him or her quicker than your ex-partner. They’re about learning your lessons and growing as a person. The more time you dedicate to discovering your mistakes and working on them, the better equipped you are for your … Read more
Asking your ex to get back together requires more than just timing. To get back together successfully, certain conditions must first be met. The most important one is your ex (the dumper) asking you to get back together. If you’re the one who approaches the dumper with high hopes and expectations, you’ll most likely get … Read more
If your ex fell in love with someone else very quickly and you’re baffled by your ex’s ability to move on super fast, the first thing you need to know is that your ex didn’t fall out of love with you yesterday. It took your ex ages to detach and stop loving you. You just … Read more
Does your ex have a new girlfriend that he treats better than he treats or treated you? If he does, don’t worry, this is completely normal. New relationships aren’t accurate representations of how things will look a year or two later. At first, couples are on their best behavior as they try to present themselves … Read more
If your ex is cold and heartless post-breakup, it’s evident your ex doesn’t have any more romantic interest, respect, and patience for you. Your ex has run out of them and can’t invest any more time and energy in a relationship that doesn’t feel good. All your ex can do is stay away from you … Read more
If your ex is obsessed with you, you probably left your ex and triggered his or her separation anxiety. You deprived your ex of love and made your ex crave your validation and the reassurance that he or she is safe and cared for. Because you pulled away without or almost without warning, you essentially … Read more
When your ex texts you, “Thinking of you,” your ex wants to communicate with you and get some kind of reaction from you. Usually, your ex wants to see that you forgive him/her for hurting you and that you’re coping well with the breakup. A reassuring reaction from you allows your dumper ex to ease … Read more
If you’re thinking about whether your ex will come back after no contact, the first thing you need to know is that you’re not supposed to reach out to your ex after a certain number of days. The one who’s supposed to reach out is your ex. He was the one who dumped you, so … Read more
Did you ever wonder how long no contact takes to work for a dumpee? I know I did. Every time I woke up, I added a day to my no contact counter and wondered if I was a step closer to my goal of getting back together with my ex. Counting the days since I … Read more
People (especially exes) hate confrontations. They hate being told or reminded they did something wrong and that they need to fix it and be better people. Dumpers are done with the relationship and feel smothered by your presence, hence why they don’t want anything to do with you. They just want to be left alone … Read more