This article covers the 5 stages of a breakup for the dumper. Even though it may not look like dumpers are in pain after they’ve initiated the break-up, the truth is that they’re hurting in their own ways (on the inside) They express grief through anger and avoidance and go through stages of dumpers’ remorse. […]
People who get dumped often assume that “I miss you” means the same as “I love you and want you back.” They’re convinced that an ex who misses them is in pain because of the breakup and regrets leaving. That’s why they get their hopes up, feel extremely anxious, and keep a weather eye on
Taking a break more often than not means breaking up. It means that the dumper has fallen out of love and has no desire to work on regaining love and commitment. He or she just wants to be left alone and do things that feel good. And things that feel good usually confuse and hurt
When people know that leaving a relationship will hurt the other person, they often use certain clichés that aim to soften the blow. Some dumpers say things like, “It’s just a break, I know I’ll regret it later, you’re the best person I ever dated—and by doing so, pretend the breakup has nothing to do
When an avoidant ex wants to be friends, you should keep in mind that your ex doesn’t want to slowly work on rebuilding love and trust. Your ex only wants the friendship part of the relationship back. And your ex may want it to avoid hard feelings and keep you at a safe/comfortable distance that
Before we talk about how to know if your ex misses you, ask yourself why you want to know the answer to this question. Is it because you feel rejected and want to feel loved? Is pain the reason you’re looking for reassurance and help from your ex? If it is, you’re playing with fire
It’s not easy to follow no contact for 3 months straight. No contact requires blind fate and immense determination and perseverance. Only those who understand the benefits of no contact and the consequences of breaking it stay committed to it for 3 months or longer. Such dumpees detach from their ex a bit and start
We have all experienced heartbreak and the desire to rekindle a past relationship. The breakup made us crazy about our ex and forced us to want to take the initiative with our ex. It made us desperate for attention and love, which in turn, made us think and do desperate things. Some of us begged
Typically, cheaters don’t miss their ex after the breakup. They enjoy their freedom and are too busy getting close to the person they left their ex for. The only time they miss their ex is when they encounter something unpredictable and painful they need their ex’s help with. Something like relationship problems, depression, financial issues,
Whether you should take someone back after they left you for someone else is a difficult question to answer. It depends on each person’s ability to forgive and the quality of his or her relationship. For example, if the relationship had been struggling for months or years and then cheating occurred, getting back together might
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If you want to sleep with your ex but have a boyfriend, you’re probably still in love with your ex. You have feelings for your ex and want your ex to make you feel validated and loved. The reason you’re still in love with your ex while you’re in a new relationship is that you
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Do you want your family to stop talking to your ex and reminding you about the past? If you do, that’s perfectly understandable. You don’t want to know what your ex is doing and your ex to know what you’re doing. The relationship has ended, so all you want is to cut off the past