Dumpees and dumpers are angry at their ex years later for different reasons. Dumpers tend to develop negative thoughts and feelings at the end of the relationship when they feel trapped and in a hurry to leave. Because they can’t leave, they become bitter and resentful and blame their ex for their unwanted feelings. They […]
If you have a feeling your ex will come back, it’s probably because you’ve been abandoned and hurt by your ex. You haven’t experienced pain like this in a long time (if ever), so you became dependent on your ex for healing, love, and reassurance. Separation anxiety, pain, and depression put you in survival mode
If you were in a relationship with someone you loved and you’re no longer getting what you want or need from that person, it’s only natural to go no contact. You must immediately cease contact with your ex and guarantee the fastest and smoothest recovery for yourself. Going no contact is no rocket science, but
Going through a breakup alone can be one of the hardest experiences you’ll ever face. People cope with grief way better when surrounded by understanding and supportive family members and friends. This is because they don’t feel alone in the breakup and have someone to rely on when things get tough. And things get tough
If you’re in no contact, you’re probably looking for signs your ex is thinking about you. You’re dying to see that your ex has a hard time coping with nostalgia and pain and that he’s thinking about you as much as you’re thinking about him. A big part if not the main part of the
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Sometimes, dumpers offer to help their exes. They do this by trying to ease their pain, doing them favors, spending time with them, or giving them money. They stay or try to stay close to their exes because they like their exes as friends or because they feel bad for hurting them and want to
If a girl you were seeing (your ex) changed her number and disappeared, something clearly went wrong. You either pestered her with texts and calls or she wasn’t ready for a relationship and felt annoyed. Either way, she felt overwhelmed and wasn’t ready to be in a romantic relationship. The girl felt overprioritized and thought
Does it seem like your ex has changed for his new girlfriend—and you can’t figure out why? Before you assume he’s a completely new person, consider the possibility that he’s just pretending to be a changed/different person. He’s in love (infatuated with this person), so he likely wants to impress her by portraying himself as
When your ex gives you money, your ex sympathizes with your financial situation and feels bad for what you’re going through. Your ex wants you to know that he or she still cares about you and wants you to purchase the things you lack the funds to buy. If you stayed in touch after the
It’s not unusual for dumpers to be happy without their exes. In fact, it’s extremely common. Breakups tend to free suffocated dumpers and empower them with relief, control, and happiness. It tells them they’re in charge of their life and that they should have left and secured happiness a long time ago. Because they didn’t
If your ex is being nice to you after breaking up with you, your ex likely wants to ease your pain and suffering. Your ex understands that the breakup has wounded you deeply and that he or she is responsible for how you feel, think, and act. Your ex sees the effects breaking up had
Engagement and marriage are two signs of detachment and happiness dumpees seem to be the most afraid of. They fear them because they think they might still have a shot with their ex as long as their ex stays single, unengaged, or unmarried. Their ex’s lack of exclusive commitment eases their worries and gives them